There’s no secret on how you can make the most of your day. But I would say,” by making it less stressful and more simplified. Doesn’t matter if the day is spent in a more productive way or not, but it should have more peace and relaxation.”
There is no way of telling how many times life will knock you off the track, and you will not be able to prevent it. This is how life is! So how can you make peace with yourself in such crisis?
By taking charge of your days, one-at-a-time will make your life simpler; because you will have more mind power to solve your problems, and you will have a more relaxed approach rather than hurrying over the matter (in fear or in anger).
Think of spending a day doing nothing! Yes, doing absolutely nothing productive, but rejuvenating, recreating a new you in person who is more aware of facing upcoming challenges, and knows how to make peace with oneself when there is an emergency at work or in life.
There are some days in my life when everything goes the opposite way! I never feel convinced; even if I tell myself that, “don’t worry, things will be fine.” Things remain tangled, unresolved, exhausted, and sick! This is a post for such days, when you are in need of just yourself- to feel the beauty of your life again!
“Stress is not what happens to us. It’s our response to what happens and response is something we can choose” – Maureen Kiloran
People believe that life is perfectly pleasant for everyone else except theirs’. So was my belief too, until I started to take my life seriously. I learned to embrace it and understand it’s need-a little closer every day! That’s how my journey of self- discovery started!
I want you to often visit your weak, neglected, unsure, hatred, scary segments of life. Touch them quite often and feel the scars that has been neglected and untouched. Feel it to know; what you can do to make it feel better! How can you improve your life to make it a better gift from God.
I have few suggested ways to make it workable for me. Hope they can help you too! But you pick the ones that will work best for you.
I have discovered these 5 ways to make my day most promising and equally relaxing.
1. Focus on solving just ‘one problem’ (nerve-wracking) that day and nothing more.
Try to find a solution to just one disturbing problem, that needs your attention right now! Whether family matter, personal relationship, career decisions, job, colleagues, time constraint issues, health, children, monetary, peers, lack of enough social media followers; or any other matter, just focus on any one problem in a day and leave the rest. Find a workable solution, and if you can’t, give it more time and jump over to the another one.
2. Spend the day doing something completely pointless.
Wonderful words of wisdom! When was the last time you had a day like this in your only life? Get lazy. Slow down a lot and get messy. Sometimes we need to get messy and a little irresponsible to wash away certain messes of our life.
3. Disconnect and just enjoy your own company.
Be yourself. Love yourself a little more today. Take good care of your mind, body and soul. Relax and unwind.
4. Get really spiritual.
There is and always will be only one true “good” friend in our life-God; Lord. Connect with Him quiet often. Share your thoughts and try to receive His implications. Offer yourself (true-self) completely and let Him decide things for you. Let Him show you the right path. Trust me; you will never go wrong! Try it!!
5. Read. Read. Read.
Nothing like reading your favorite books, or certain books that can reload energy and positive powers within you. Utilize this day to feel more inspired and motivated (just the way you like). Just read the kind of book you like; but definitely nothing discouraging, or anything that will make you feel more stressed!
How best you think you can spend your day or would like to spend? Share with me by leaving me a comment down below. I would love to hear from you:)
In order to make the best of your day, start by simply burning your to-do list, and focus on the present moment. What is that you really want to do now?
You're so right, Epsita. Life is stressful, but it depends how we go about it. These are really lovely and simple tips to do, but effective.
Cheers to the weekend! 🙂
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Love these tips, and such a positive message
We can handle all the stresses life throws at us if we take it one step at a time
And thank goodness we can always escape in books when we need!
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I need to work on choosing one thing to solve, I think it would be better than going in 10 directions xox ♡
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Great tips.
You are so right!
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Amazing post Epsita.
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Totally agree with these points! I always try to focus on solving only one problem but it is sometimes difficult.
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I love your tips dear. I would like to concentrate on one thing in particular and that is "spending time with ourselves ". I think people sometimes make their lives more busy to avoid thinking about their problems. I think it is possible for everyone to take some time to think and "do nothing"….In fact, I think this "doing nothing" can actually be used to reflect about our life and problems. People are today afraid to spend time by themselves and that is strange…An adult person should not be afraid to spend time alone. We can be less lonely when we are alone sometimes than when we're surrounded by others. I like to be on my own sometimes, it really helps me relax.
This is such a lovely post,
i adore your style so much!
Keep up that great style
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I read, read and read too for when I need inspiration. You are soo right Epsita 🙂
xoxo
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Great advice!! 🙂
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great post!
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Lovely post. I love the topic! 🙂 Thanks for sharing.
Have a good day,
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I like it
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Great post!
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Hi!
Congratulations on the blog, it looks beautiful!
I loved the post and photos.
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I always love reading about new tips that can help me relax or remind me to do one thing at a time! Thanks for sharingyour, yoga and reading help me so much 🙂
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So much Inspiration! great Work <3
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Great post! Not always easy though! And yes I can really enjoy being on my own, alone…doing my thing! I so agree with you on that one!
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I love this! It's really helped me sort my mind out today because I've had a lot of uni/family related stress recently so its great to be able to clear away all the negative thoughts!x
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