This afternoon; “I was kind of feeling annoyed. Feeling angry and frustrated; because I was getting lost in my unhappy thoughts. After many attempts, I was not able to understand certain relationships in my life. It was getting difficult for me to make people (some people I spoke to)understand; about things- that hurt me; certain blames and words; that I will never want to hear anymore! I know it’s really difficult to manage relationships. To make some people understand about your vision to see things- that happen, or are made to happen!
Every time I end up being a ‘neutral’ woman (who wants to say and prove too many things about the other person; but stays quiet, wordless and many a times- just numb!), I start to get mad and left irritant! I don’t see the need to hurt the other person; by pointing at their mistakes; by showing that, they are always not correct; or may be, what they say- hurts me too!
Such circumstances leave me unhappy and demotivated. Then, I do nothing; or feel like; never ‘trying’ anything more. Yes! Absolutely never giving another try.
Just then; I overheard the song from Sofia The First (One of Nick Jr. programs for kids) that was: “Anything.” Such perfect timing!! All thanks, to my daughter, that she was watching Sofia at that moment (I guess! One of many times, I was happy to accept my kid watching TV ;))
Wow! I always keep my special eyes and ears open- to see inspiration everywhere and in everything; and this was so much in time!
My spirits gathered strength, I started smiling and dancing in joy; I started feeling light at heart and mind- and I repeated to myself: “Anything is possible; when I tune myself to-I Can, and decided- I am not giving up, at least not to myself!”
Every time I feel sad, dejected, rejected, guilt; like a question box, that’s left with only endless questions, and no answers or any clue; I quickly grab my attention and focus it on to anything- that can be motivating at that moment- right then and right there! If nothing helps- I just sit quiet, and try to read some favorite articles- from my favorite inspiring blogs.
What do you do to un-occupy your mind and thoughts out of such circumstances?
What a coincidence! At the time I feel sad over something, I read this post of yours which in some ways lift up my spirit again. Whenever I feel sad, I talk to someone whom I could trust. That relieves me a bit. Then, I keep repeating positive thoughts in my mind that there are ways to solve the problem and I'm sure, too, I'm not the only one who have problems. May be there are hundreds of others out there who might be facing some other problems and they survive. This motivates me. I want to be a survivor and like you, I won’t give up! And I have faith, so I pray.
Thanks, Epsita, for the inspirations that bring light to others. 🙂
So hard to remember but so important to do. When we're angry or frustrated we often forget to take a step back and gain a more positive perspective. I love that sometimes it's music that reminds us to do that. Music can be such a great mood changer.
great post!
nice a day ♥
i definitely need this reminder sometimes as well, great post!
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Sorry, Epsita. I didn't mean to spam your blog. There must be a glitch somewhere. Please, delete one of my comments. Thank you. 🙂
Sure, Balqis! I knew, it was some error, but didn't want to hurt you by deleting:)
But now that you said; I did, dear:)
Thank you
Have a Lovely Weekend!
Thank you, Emi!
You have a Great Weekend.
Thank you very much, Danielle!
You are welcome, dear:)
Can't tell you, how happy I am feeling after reading this that; my words helped you in some ways. What else I can ask for! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your sweet words and also for sharing your thoughts, Balqis!
Feeling blessed today food having such beautiful people in my world- who likes me, who likes my thoughts.
Thanks a ton!! Never give-up before problems, Dear!
True, Karen. The right Music is definitely a wonderful way to shift your thoughts from sad to happy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
You will be fine:) take any situation as great exprerince and its a part of our human grow pus. Thing come and go. You can do anything with your positive minder. Wish you all the best of anuthing. Thank you so much for your lovely time on my blog. Hoping to see you around.
Have a lovely Sunday:).
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Thank you, Tanya:)
True, taking a strong and continuous decision to see the positive side of life- when surrounded by problems has always helped me to face the challenges:)
Thank you for thus lovely words.
Keep in touch!
About the spilling errors, no problem. I understand:)
Epsita, thank you for dropping by my blog and leaving such wonderful and thoughtful comments for me xox
I think what makes a person strong is that even though there are trials or challenges in life, always trying to see the good in them or the people we know makes them even stronger… yes there are times where we have to walk away or take a step back… just to mediate or think.
I have to agree with that statement of anything is possible if we just tune ourselves into I can… thank you for being open and sharing it with us… xox
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That's a lovely song 🙂 So good to see inspiration everywhere. I love the 'I can' philosophy – but when you are low, sometimes, nothing works 🙁
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i understand how you feel dear, i have felt same too
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First of all, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences always through your posts. They are awe-inspiring! I love reading and learning your experiences.
Secondly, thank you for taking time to read and comment on my posts. Means a lot; when I read all of your thoughts to my posts- all the time. Thank you again!!
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Thank you, Rosh!
I agree when we are low; I guess nothing works, but I would still try to find excuses to feel joy from the inside.
Thanks again for sharing your thoughts!
Thanks much, Melody!!
Such a beautiful post. <333
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So true! We can if we want to and if we say so. Stay positive!
Thank you very much, Nessa!
Thank you, Lux!!
Hi there! This blog post could not be written any better!
Reading through this article reminds me of my previous roommate!
He always kept talking about this. I will forward this post to him.
Fairly certain he’s going to have a good read. Thank you for sharing!
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